Monday, February 3, 2014

Thoughts are Things






Thoughts are Things

Prentice Mulford


The spiritual or more enlightened mind says: “If you would help to drive away sickness, turn your thought as much as you can on health, strength and vigour, and on strong, healthy, vigorous material things, such as moving clouds, fresh breezes, the cascade, the ocean surge; on woodland scenes and growing healthy trees; on birds full of life and motion; for in so doing you turn on yourself a real current or this healthy life‐giving thought, which is suggested and brought you by the thought of such vigorous, strong material objects.


“Your real self may not at times be where your body is” says the spiritual mind. It is where your mind is‐‐in the store, the office, the workshop, or with some person to whom you are strongly attached, and all of these may be in towns or cities far from the one your body resides in. Your real self moves with inconceivable rapidity as your thought moves.


Neither the material mind nor the material body is to be won over and merged into the spiritual by any course of severe self-censure or self-denial, nor self-punishment in expiation for sins committed, nor asceticism. That will only make you the more harsh, severe, bigoted and merciless, both to yourself and others.


It is from this perversion that have come orders and associations of men and women who, going to another extreme, seek holiness in self-denial and penance.


If in your mental vision you teach yourself that you are “utterly depraved” and a “vile sinner,” you are unconsciously making that your ideal, and you will unconsciously grow up to it until the pain and evil coming of such unhealthy growth either makes you turn back or destroys your body, For out of this state of mind, which in the past has been much inculcated, comes harshness, bigotry, lack of charity for others, hard, stern and gloomy and unhealthy views of life, and these mental conditions will surely bring physical disease.






Your brothers or sisters may not be like you at all in mind, taste, and inclination. You may associate with them because they are members of the family, but were you not to know them as brothers, sisters, or other relatives, or were you to see elsewhere their exact counterparts in character, you might not like such counterparts at all. Physical or “ blood relationship” has very little bearing on the real or mental relationship. It is possible for a brother or sister, a father or mother to be very closely allied to you in thought and sympathy. Again, it is possible for a father or mother, brother or sister, to be very remote from you in thought and sympathy, and to live in a realm or atmosphere of thought very unlike yours.


You can live neither healthfully nor comfortably, unless with those whose thought‐atmosphere (a literal emanation from them) is similar to your own. Physical relationship may or may not furnish such at atmosphere.


No force is more subtle in its workings, nor more powerful to bring results for good or ill than the steady output of thought from one or several minds combined, on one person to effect some desired result, and whether this is done intelligently and consciously, or blindly, the force works the same result.

The term “ought“ has no application to the nature of love. Love goes where it will, and to whom it will, and where it is attracted. You cannot force yourself to love anything or anybody. There have been parents who had no real love for their children, and children who had no real love for their parents.


You did not make that son or daughter’s character. It was made long before that spirit had the use of its last new body. What traits, what imperfections were very prominent in its last existence, will appear in its next. If that was a thieving spirit before, it will probably show thieving tendencies now. If it was gross, animal and gluttonous, then similar tendencies will show themselves now. You, if grown to a more refined plane of thought, may do much to modify and lessen these tendencies. But all that you will do in this respect will be done through the silent force and action of your superior thought on your child’s mind. It will not be done through a great deal of verbal counsel or physical punishment or discipline.


No person is really reformed by another, in the sense such a term is sometimes used. Reform must come from within. It must be self‐sustaining. It must not depend wholly on another’s presence or influence. If it does, it is only a temporary reform. It will fail when the influence of the person on whom it depends is removed.


But one person having the superior mind, can, if in a very close and long‐continued association with one weaker, give temporarily to the weaker their very life and force, if their desire it very strong to help the weaker.


… he relapses and sinks into his real self, unless he is resolved to be self‐sustaining, and evolve force out of himself instead of using another’s. If she continues to supply him, she is only sustaining his temporary character, which cannot last when its source of supply is removed, and in such continuance she will certainly in time exhaust herself…






Travel in first‐class style, put up at first‐class hotels and dress in apparel “as costly as your purse can buy,” without running into the extreme of foppishness. In these things you find aids to place you in a current of relative power and success.


If our minds are, from what is falsely called economy, ever set on the cheap – cheap lodgings, cheap food and cheap fares, we get in the thought current of the cheap, the slavish and the fearful. Our views of life and our plans will be influenced and warped by it. It paralyzes that courage and enterprise implied in the old adage “Nothing ventured nothing gained.”


Absorbed in this current and having it ever acting on you, it is felt immediately when you come into the presence of the successful and causes them to avoid you. They feel in you the absence of that element which brings them their relative success. It acts as a barrier, preventing the flow to you of their sympathy. Sympathy is a most important factor in business. Despite opposition and competition, a certain thought current of sympathy binds the most successful together.


The mania for cheapness lies in the thought current of fear and failure. The thought current of fear and failure, and the thought current of dash, courage and success will not mingle nor bring together the individuals who are in these respective streams of thought. They antagonize, and between the two classes of mind is built a barrier more impenetrable than walls of stone. Live altogether in any one idea, any one “reform” and you get into the thought current of all other minds who are carrying that idea to extremes.






When people come together and in any way talk out their ill‐will towards others they are drawing to themselves with ten‐fold power an injurious thought current.


The thought current so attracted by those chronic complainers, grumblers and scandal mongers, will injure their bodies. Because whatever thought is most held in mind is most materialized in the body. If we are always thinking and talking of people’s imperfections we are drawing to us ever of that thought current, and thereby incorporating into ourselves those very imperfections.






If you dwell a great deal on your own faults you will by the same laws attract more and more of their thought current, and so increase those faults. It is enough that you recognize in yourself those faults. Don’t be always saying of yourself, “I am weak or cowardly or ill‐tempered or imprudent,” Draw to yourself rather the thought current of strength, courage, even temper, prudence and all other good qualities. Keep the image of these qualities in mind and you make them a part of yourself.






Cowardice is rooted in hurry, the habit of hurry or lack of repose. All degrees of success are based on courage – mental or physical. All degrees of failure are based on timidity. You can cultivate courage and increase it at every minute and hour of the day.


You can do this by the cultivation of deliberation – deliberation of speech, of walk, of writing, of eating – deliberation in everything.


There is always a bit of fear where there is a bit of hurry. When you hurry to the train you are in fear that you may be left, and with that comes fear of other possibilities consequent on your being left.


This habit of thought can, through an unconscious training, grow to such an extent as to pervade a person’s mind, at all times and places, and bring on a fear of loss of some kind, when there is absolutely no loss to be sustained.


When we dress, eat, walk or do anything with mind placed on something else, we are making the present act irksome;

To bring us what all want and are seeking for, namely‐happiness, we need to have perfect control of our mind and thought at all times and places.


We need to keep always our mind present with us. We want it always on the spot ready to use in any direction.


Our thought moves from one thing to another with more than electric speed, and we can unconsciously train this quickness to be ever darting from one thing to another until it becomes almost impossible to keep it on one thing for ten consecutive seconds. On the contrary, through cultivation of repose and deliberation in all things we can train ourselves to mass and fasten our thought on anything as long as we please, to throw ourselves into any mood of mind we please, and to throw ourselves at will into sleep or a semi‐conscious, dreamy state as restful as sleep.


Awkwardness, lack of address, lack of tact are all due to this lack of command of mind caused by lack of deliberation, or in other words, a trained incapacity for taking time to think or plan the proper thing to do.


To train then for courage is to train for deliberate movement in all things, for that is simply training to mass and hold your force in reserve and let out no more than is needed for the moment.






You will remember that anything which is done in mind, expends quite as much force as if done with the body, so that the persons who linger abed in the morning and think with dread of the breakfasts to be cooked, or the rooms to be swept, so far as expenditure of force is concerned, will be doing those acts then and there while lying on their backs.


Cultivate deliberate act and movement in all things, and you lay more and more the solid foundation for courage, either moral or physical. But deliberate act does not always imply slowness. Just as thought moves with electric rapidity, so may it move the body when occasion requires, but the thought must be clearly planned, seen and outlined in mind before it is allowed to act on the body.






A “self‐ contained” man is never in a hurry; and a self‐contained man keeps or contains his thought, his spirit, his power, mostly on the act or use he is making at the present moment with the instrument his spirit uses, his body; and the habitually self‐possessed woman will be graceful in every movement, for the reason that her spirit has complete possession and command of its tool, the body; and is not a mile or ten miles away from that body in thought, and fretting or hurrying or dwelling on something at that distance from her body.






When we dread a misfortune, or live in fear of any ill, or expect ill luck, we make also a construction of unseen element, thought,‐‐which, by the same law of attraction, draws to it destructive, and to you damaging, forces or elements. Thus the law for success is also the law for misfortune, according as it is used;


Of whatever possible thing we think, we are building, in unseen substance, a construction which will draw to us forces or elements to aid us or hurt us, according to the character of thought we think or put out.


… when we concentrate our mental force or thought on any plan or pursuit or undertaking, we are setting at work the attractive force of thought‐ substance to draw to us the means or agencies or forces or individuals to carry out that plan…






Never in thought acknowledge an impossibility. Never in mind reject what to you may seem the wildest idea with scorn; because, in so doing, you may not know what you are closing the door against. To say anything is impossible because it seems impossible to you, is just so much training in the dangerous habit of calling out “Impossible!” to every new idea. Your mind is then a prison full of doors, barred to all outside, and you the only inmate. “All things” are possible with God.


God works in and through you. To say “Impossible!” as to what you may do or become is a sin. It is denying God’s power to work through you. It is denying the power of the Infinite Spirit to do through you far more than what you are now capable of conceiving in mind.


To say “Impossible!” is to set up your relatively weak limit of comprehension as the standard of the universe. It is as audacious as to attempt the measurement of endless space with a yard‐stick.






There are thousands of things, events and scenes in your past life which it is more profitable to forget than to remember. By so forgetting you allow entrance for new idea, which is new life. By remembering you prevent the coming to you of such new idea and life.


By “forgetting,” I mean that you should avoid living in unpleasant past scenes and remembrances.


… you should cultivate the power of driving from your mind and putting out of sight whatever makes you feel unhappy or whatever you discover that is unprofitable to remember.

All experiences are valuable for the wisdom they bring or suggest. But when you have once gained wisdom and knowledge from any experience, there is little profit in repeating it, especially if it has been unpleasant, You do actually repeat it when you remember it or live it over again in thought. This is what people are doing who brood over past misfortunes and disappointments.





Saturday, January 25, 2014

The Prophet



The Prophet

Kahlil Gibran




Marriage


You were born together, and together you shall be for evermore.


You shall be together when the white wings of death scatter your days.


Aye, you shall be together even in the silent memory of God.


But let there be spaces in your togetherness.


And let the winds of the heavens dance between you.


Love one another, but make not a bond of love: Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.


Fill each other’s cup but drink not from one cup.


Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf.


Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone.


Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music.


Give your hearts, but not into each other’s keeping. For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts.


And stand together yet not too near together: For the pillars of the temple stand apart, And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other’s shadow.



Children


Your children are not your children.


They are the sons and daughters of Life’s longing for itself.


They come through you but not from you.


And though they are with you yet they belong not to you.


You may give them your love but not your thoughts, for they have their own thoughts.


You may house their bodies but not their souls, for their souls dwell in the house of to-morrow, which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.


You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you. For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.


You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth.



Giving


You give but little when you give of your possessions. It is when you give of yourself that you truly give…


It is well to give when asked, but it is better to give unasked, through understanding;…


You often say, “ I would give, but only to the deserving.” The trees in your orchard say not so, nor the flocks in your pasture. They give that they may live, for to withhold is to perish. Surely he who is worthy to receive his days and his nights is worthy of all else from you. And he who has deserved to drink from the ocean of life deserves to fill his cup from your little stream…


See first that you yourself deserve to be a giver, and an instrument of giving. For in truth it is life that gives unto life—while you, who deem yourself a giver, are but a witness.



Work with Love


It is to weave the cloth with threads drawn from your heart, even as if your beloved were to wear that cloth.


It is to build a house with affection, even as if your beloved were to dwell in that house.


It is to sow seeds with tenderness and reap the harvest with joy, even as if your beloved were to eat the fruit.


Often have I heard you say, as if speaking in sleep, “ He who works in marble, and finds the shape of his own soul in the stone, is nobler than he who ploughs the soil. “ And he who seizes the rainbow to lay it on a cloth in the likeness of man, is more than he who makes the sandals for our feet.”


But I say, not in sleep, but in the overwakefulness of noontide, that the wind speaks not more sweetly to the giant oaks than to the least of all the blades of grass;


And he alone is great who turns the voice of the wind into a song made sweeter by his own loving…


Wednesday, January 15, 2014

Illusions



Illusions: The Adventures of a Reluctant Messiah


Richard Bach


Movies and Life

“That was a good movie,” he said, “but the world’s best movie is still an illusion, is it not? The pictures aren’t even moving ; they only appear to move. Changing light that seems to move across a flat screen set up in the dark?”

“Well, yes.” I was beginning to understand.

“The other people, any people anywhere who go to any movie show, why are they there, when it is only illusions?”

“Well, it’s entertainment,” I said.


“Fun. that’s right. One.”

“Could be educational.”

“Good. It is always that. Learning. Two.”

“Fantasy, escape.”

“That’s fun, too. One.”

“Technical reasons. To see how a film is made.”

“Learning. Two.”

“Escape from boredom …”

“Escape. You said that.” 

“Social. To be with friends,” I said.

“Reason for going, but not for seeing the film. That’s fun, anyway. One.”

Whatever I came up with fit his two fingers; people see films for fun or for  learning or for both together.

“And a movie is like a lifetime, Don, is that right?”

“Yes.”

“Then why would anybody choose a bad lifetime, a horror movie?”

“They not only come to the horror movie for fun, they know it is going to be a horror movie when they walk in,” he said.

“But why?…”

“Do you like horror films?”

“No.”

“Do you ever see them?”

“No.”

“But some people spend a lot of money and time to see horror, or soap-opera problems that to other people are dull and boring?…” He left the question for me to answer.

“Yes.”

“You don’t have to see their films and they don’t have to see yours. That is called ‘freedom.’”

“But why would anybody want to be horrified? Or bored?”

“Because they think they deserve it for horrifying somebody else, or they like the excitement of horrification, or that boring is the way they think films have to be. Can you believe that lots of people for reasons that are very sound to them enjoy believing that they are helpless in their own films? No, you can’t.”

“No, I can’t,” I said. “Until you understand that, you will wonder why some people are unhappy . They are unhappy because they have chosen to be unhappy, and, Richard, that is all right!”

“Hm.”

“We are game-playing, fun-having creatures, we are the otters of the universe. We cannot die, we cannot hurt ourselves any more than illusions on the screen can be hurt. But we can believe we’re hurt, in whatever agonizing detail we want. We can believe we’re victims, killed and killing, shuddered around by good luck and bad luck.”

“Many lifetimes?” I asked.

“How many movies have you seen?”

“Oh.”

“Films about living on this planet , about living on other planets; anything that’s got space and time is all movie and all illusion,” he said. “But for a while we can learn a huge amount and have a lot of fun with our illusions, can we not?”

“How far do you take this movie thing, Don?”

“How far do you want? You saw the film tonight partly because I wanted to see it. Lots of people choose lifetimes because they enjoy doing things together. The actors in the film tonight have played together in other films – before or after depends on which film you’ve seen first, or you can see them at the same time on different screens. We buy tickets to these films, paying admission by agreeing to believe in the reality of space and the reality of time … Neither one is true, but anyone who doesn’t want to pay that price cannot appear on this planet, or in any space-time system at all.”

“Are there some people who don’t have any lifetimes at all in space-time?”

“Are there some people who never go to movies?”

“I see. They get their learning in different ways?”

“Right you are,” he said, pleased with me.

“Space -time is a fairly primitive school. But a lot of people stay with the illusion even if it is boring, and they don’t want the lights turned on early.”

“Who writes these movies, Don?”

“Isn’t it strange how much we know if only we ask ourselves instead of somebody else? Who writes these movies, Richard?”

“We do,” I said.

“Who acts?”

“Us.”

“Who’s the cameraman, the projectionist, the theater manager, the ticket-taker, the distributor, and who watches them all happen? Who is free to walk out in the middle, any time, change the plot whenever, who is free to see the same film over and over again?”

“Let me guess,” I said.

“Anybody who wants to?”

“Is that enough freedom for you?” he said.

“And is that why movies are so popular? That we instinctively know they are a parallel of our own lifetimes?”

“Maybe so … maybe not. Doesn’t matter much, does it? What’s the projector?”

“Mind,” I said.

“No. Imagination. It’s our imagination, no matter what you say.”

“What’s the film?” he asked.

"Got me.”

“Whatever we give our consent to put into our imagination?”

“Maybe so, Don.”

“You can hold a reel of film in your hands,” he said, “and it’s all finished and complete – beginning, middle, end are all there that same second, the same millionths of a second. The film exists beyond the time that it records, and if you know what the movie is , you know generally what’s going to happen before you walk into the theater: there’s going to be battles and excitement, winners and losers, romance, disaster; you know that’s all going to be there. But in order to get caught up and swept away in it, in order to enjoy it to its most, you have to put it in a projector and let it go through the lens minute by minute … any illusion requires space and time to be experienced. So you pay your nickel and you get your ticket and you settle down and forget what’s going on outside the theater and the movie begins for you.”

“And nobody’s really hurt? That’s just tomato-sauce blood?”

“No, it’s blood all right,” he said. “But it might as well be tomato sauce for the effect it has on our real life …”

“And reality?”

“Reality is divinely indifferent, Richard. A mother doesn’t care what part her child plays in his games; one day bad-guy, next day good-guy. The Is doesn’t even know about our illusions and games. It only knows Itself, and us in its likeness, perfect and finished.”